Life experience is what makes us who we are. Deeds and misdeeds executed, relationships forged, decisions rendered and random memories collected continuously mold us and alter who we will be when we wake up the next morning. We all posses these nuances, there is no question. When it comes to current emotional endeavors the question of history is very tricky. Some people feel that a license of marriage gives them a license of knowledge, and …showed first 75 words of 975 total…

…showed last 75 words of 975 total…the owner of such emotions for "hiding" them. It's also unfair and very ignorant to attempt to pretend that those feelings don't weigh into a partner's current emotional state. And that when evaluating a spouse or prospective spouse, one needs to accept the fact that not all skeletons will be brought out of the proverbial closet and that sometimes a nurturing stance needs to be taken when such emotions do surface. Gabriel ultimately understood that.